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10. Ideas about the relationship of the level of sexual
desire to the rate of sexual activity
We assume that there exists a "basic," genetically
determined level of sexual desire, and that this level
can change under the influence of personal factors,
sexual partners, and the micro- and macro-social environment.
The various levels of a subject's sexual activity can
therefore be classified as belonging to one of three
states.
In the first state the rate of sexual activity corresponds
to the level of libido, in the second case it is higher,
and in the third it is lower.
Continuing the theme, let's take the example of a man
whose basic level of libido is classified as 'low,'
but who is driven by personal factors towards an intense
rhythm of sexual life - a result of his acceptance of
the social stereotype that in the first year of marriage
sexual intercourse should be "frequent".
As a result of this man's high rate of sexual activity,
the cyto-genetic mechanism of pre-zygotic determination
produces an elevated level of testosterone, and the
pool of Y-carrying spermatozoids have a selective advantage,
which is realized in the process of pre-zygotic selection,
leading to the conception of a male child.
There are some families where the genealogical tree
along the male line shows only men (and vice versa)
for several generations. >>>
It is possible that in these cases, the limited level
of sexual desire is inherited, as are the specific personal
factors which lead to "frequent" sexual activity.
We will now examine the second case - where the man
has a 'low' or 'moderate' level of libido, but the personal
factors are situation-dependant, and not genetically
determined. The man's partner has a strong sexual drive,
and the couple's sexual life reflects this. The man
again produces high levels of testosterone, leading
again, through the familiar process, to the conception
of a male child.
In this case, the subject's genealogical tree does
not have the characteristics described above. In the
next example, the genetically determined level of libido
is 'high,' but personal and social factors (for example,
a religious world-view) limit the level of sexual activity.
As a result the cyto-genetic mechanism produces less
testosterone, and the X-carrying pool of sperm gains
a selective advantage, which is realized in the process
of pre-zygotic selection, leading to the conception
of a female child.
We will not continue to enumerate all the possible
variants, but note merely that, even though the factors
influencing the basic level of libido and the rate of
sexual activity are extremely numerous and varied (these
factors include the influence of the sexual partner,
somatic condition, marital status, social conditions,
and so on), the modulations of the cyto-genetic mechanisms
of pre-zygotic determination lie within certain clear
boundaries.